Where Is He????

Many women are looking for a mate, a husband, and they are getting tired and frustrated, restless even.

Well, many of you are facing issues because you are excepting anyone, including everyone in your pool of possible mates. You don't have to be so guarded but you cannot possibly give everyone a chance. There are many mismatches out there.

Let me break it down for you. Your heart is individualized for you. It's personalized, and it contains protected data that not everyone should access. On top of that it is guarded with security parameters- some one you have a pass code, some have pin codes, some have a lock and key system, some have a fingerprint scanner.

How can a man get to your heart if he

#1) doesn't know how to access it? You require a key for access and he's trying to input a pin code. You require a fingerprint, and he's trying to input a password.

#2) if he knows how to access but does not possess the correct code/ validation 

To make it more difficult for a woman to identify (identify, NOT go out and find) the right man for her, some men are not even looking to access her heart. What they want is to access her sexually in order to satisfy their sexual, sometimes psychological, needs. This is selfish of that man and Love is not selfish! You see, while it takes qualification, validation, and authorization to access the heart of a woman, it takes nothing but desire/ lust to access her flesh and be involved sexually with her.

Once a woman realizes the difference between a man who seeks her heart and a man who seeks her flesh and what she can do for him, she can begin to weed out Mr. Wrong from Mr. Right and Mr. Right For Me. Just as all potential mates are unknowing of how to access your heart and what the code is for it, not all of those who are interested are right for you. They may be good men, just not right for you, thus the need to further scale down the list. After careful review, and much prayer and obedience to God, you will obtain your Mr. Right For Me, the one who God placed in your life to become one with you and produce fruit with, the kind of fruit that pleases God.